Let’s look at why focusing your mind in positive directions is important to the Success of your Relationship and helps to Build Intimacy between you and your partner.  Basically, we are talking about the concept of “self-fulfilling prophecy”.  Let’s look at what this means … and why it matters so much to the success of what you create in your life and in your relationship.

POSITIVE MESSAGES TO THE SUBCONSCIOUS:

If you have told yourself (and your subconscious mind, which is just sitting there, listening in) something POSITIVE, you are directing it to create in that fashion. Thus programmed, your subconscious mind can create a VERY GOOD, self-confident, self-esteeming event.  Perhaps, you have been thinking about building the closeness of the relationship between you and your partner.  Given this to work with, your subconscious mind — by its very nature and function — proceeds to create this positive outcome between you and your partner.  It works to strengthen your relationship! This event can, in turn, begin to help you build your relationship bonding and intimacy.

NEGATIVE MESSAGES TO THE SUBCONSCIOUS:

On the other hand, if you have told yourself some NEGATIVE thought — something you don’t even WANT to experience … guess what? You are correct: Your subconscious mind, thus programmed, proceeds to activate the negative thought, too.

And WHY is this? It occurs specifically because your subconscious mind does what it was told! It doesn’t care about the outcome — it’s just following your commands, which you delivered via your thoughts. This is its nature — it’s the way it functions!

What a “pickle”, isn’t it? It sure is … because, in this latter example, not only are you focusing on what you DON’T want, it FEELS BAD. And YOU feel bad as a result!

So, what else could you do?

OTHER OPTIONS:

You could become VERY vigilant to your thoughts. You could start to pay very close and particular attention to what you are thinking — with the knowledge that, left unchanged, your subconscious mind will be creating those thoughts!

WHY IT MATTERS:

There is a specific reason that I want you to understand the creative POWER of your subconscious mind. That reason is to assist you to better understand why you absolutely DO NOT want to spend valuable time and mental energy in negative thinking … and why you DO want to spend valuable time and mental energy in positive thinking!  There is no limit to the positive outcomes you can create when you give positive thoughts to your subconscious mind!  It can help the health of your relationship to grow and deepen … in incredible, enjoyable ways!

I invite you to use these principles over and over to deepen your relationship bonds and enhance the intimacy between you and your partner!